Love Blogs

Myth Wedding Ring (2009 Valentine Special)

2009-02-01T08:05:00.000-08:00

Why ring on 4th finger. See the explanation on this video

Signs That Your Date Is Not The One

2009-01-26T00:26:00.000-08:00

After enduring weeks of single girl sympathy, you finally agreed to let your cousin set you up with that "great guy" she knows. Since you said yes, you figure you might as well make the most of it and keep an open mind. But, just in case, you ask your best friend to call your cell about a half hour into the date so you can fake an emergency if needed.

Actually, it's not even faking. Bad dates are emergencies. However, lucky for you, there are warning signs that the person you are out with is, and always will be, a terrible date. If you are unlucky enough to experience any of them first hand, make sure to answer your friend's call saying, "Oh no! That's terrible! I'll be right over."

He's Late

This one is pretty basic. If a guy doesn't have enough enthusiasm for the date to actually show up on time, you shouldn't expect to be impressed by the rest of the night. Obviously, there are times when you just can't help it, but he'd better have a good reason if he shows up at your door even 15 minutes late.

He's Not Dressed to Impress

You've spent hours on your hair and a pile of rejected clothes covers your bed. You are finally dressed to the nines in the perfect outfit and ready for the evening. You open the door and are surprised to be greeted by your date in torn jeans and a stained t-shirt. You doubt he's washed his hair today (or yesterday). You expected a nice night out and he shows up looking like he's dressed for a monster truck rally.

He Takes you to a Monster Truck Rally

Original and unique first dates are a great way to stand out from the rest of the fish in the sea, but there are exceptions. He should at least do a little research into your style before he plans an unusual activity. Sure, he might really love hot dogs and monster trucks, but if you were thinking fine dining and theatre, there's bound to be trouble.

The fact that he didn't bother to ask your opinion beforehand (or at least get the matchmaker's thoughts on the plan) doesn't bode well for how he's going to respect your needs and wants in the future.

He Expects You to Pay

It's not absolutely necessary that he pick up the check. Along with all those useful freedoms like voting, the feminist movement also brought us the responsibility of at least offering to pay for half the date. Most guys still think it's chivalrous to pick up the tab for the first date and there's nothing wrong with indulging his male ego (after an appropriate amount of protesting of course).

No girl is expecting a man to drop a fortune on a first date, but a guy who expects you to pay for everything without lifting a finger to open his own wallet doesn't give off the impression that he cares much what you think of him. In fact, he probably won't see a second date (and maybe not even the end of the first one). A good rule of thumb for payment is: whoever asks for the date, pays for the date.

He Talks About his Ex

So maybe you escaped the monster truck rally, but instead of choking on exhaust fumes and standing in a sea of drunken mullets, you get to hear all about his wonderful or horrible ex-girlfriend. Bonus trouble points if he had a nasty breakup and insists on sharing the details with you.

If he refers to his ex even once with a derogatory insult that you wouldn't call your worst enemy, run for the hills now. It's not a good sign if he can't say anything nice about the last woman with whom he had a significant relationship.

How Can I Put This.? He's a Weirdo.

Yes, it's time to weed out those with personal quirks that you find distasteful or generally unacceptable. This will be different for every woman of course (some chicks really dig witchcraft, guys that live with their moms or Dungeons and Dragons enthusiasts). Regardless, that tight knot that is forming in your stomach while you listen to his ideas, habits and activities, should not be ignored.

Awkward Moments vs. Awkward Hours

When he's not filling you in on his wacky life, the conversation stalls into silence or unintelligible grunting. It's normal to have a little awkwardness or difficulty getting conversation to flow in the beginning of a first date, but if after a few minutes, he still can't think of a single question to ask about your life or keep up with the conversation, it's time to call it a night.

If it's twenty minutes in and you've run out of things to talk about, you probably don't have much of a future together.

Need Eyeglass- Funny Commercial

2008-12-08T09:44:00.000-08:00

Marriage For Insurance

2008-11-08T05:55:00.000-08:00

If you're thinking the idea of marriage insurance is new, then think again. Its roots go back to the very beginnings of insurance in England. As early as 1664, insurance policies were being written on births, marriages, christenings, and more. Marriage itself is a forward-looking and joyous event. It is a time when your outlook seems bright, and dreams are coming to fruition. Throughout history, marriage has been the cornerstone of what we know as civilized society; or perhaps religious society.

Couples of today are marrying later in many cases. Both husband and wife bring more assets and more debt into the relationship. Yet, it's rare that an investment vehicle today can provide individuals with monetary incentive for simply staying married. Forms of agreement are available in triplicate for divorce settlements. But as far as pre-vow papers go to insure an increase in wealth if two people can stay married, they simply are hard to come by, if they exist at all. There are very few guarantees in life, some may argue only one, and based on the current divorce rates, any insurance company offering these policies would surely make a fortune, right? Well, not exactly. Once you're married, you're married until death or divorce papers are signed. If a couple had a large monetary settlement coming after 20 years, they could divorce after 10 and refuse to sign the papers, agreeing to split the money when it comes.

Approximately 2.3 million weddings take place in the U.S. alone annually. Data suggests that half of these marriages will end via divorce. One of the only insurance companies offering to pay a settlement upon completion of a 25th wedding anniversary is the SafeGuard Guaranty Corporation. If the idea of an insured marriage sounds crazy, then maybe you're better suited finding an insured wedding. Many insurance companies out there will insure your wedding. And for many people, it's the only way to tie the knot.

Wedding costs keep skyrocketing, and brides and grooms are taking big financial risk to plan that special day. With all of the things you have to book like the church, caterers, reception hall, etc, things can just get crazy for you if one goes belly up. Instead of ending up thousands in the red, companies like WedSafe are allowing you to insure weddings. A policy like this covers all sorts of unforeseen problems that could derail a wedding. If any event leads to a cancellation or postponement, the policy will foot the bill.

These policies are vastly different. One wants to ensure your fail to reach your 25th, and the other wants to be sure you make it through that faithful day. But either way you slice it, neither policy seems like a bad idea if you're getting married. Why not have insurance on your wedding day, all the way up through your 25th anniversary?

Why Choose Online Adult Education

2008-05-17T08:04:00.000-07:00

After you've been out of school for a few years, the idea of taking adult education classes can seem intimidating or even scary for many people. After all, most people have their life somewhat organized after they've been out of school a while. They may have a job, a family and children, and feel quite secure in their role as an adult. So going back to school can in some ways be seen as a step backwards, away from the reality and security of adult life.

But the truth is, deciding to attend adult education classes can be a big step forward in your life, even though it may not seem that way at first glance. Continuing or completing your education as an adult is richly rewarding, and we'll give you the satisfaction of having achieved something important in your life -- a type of milestone.

One common reservation about going back to school is finding the time in your busy life for study. But with a little commitment and preparation, all of us can find creative ways to free up time during the week. Perhaps you will need to cut back on your extracurricular activities, or delegate certain responsibilities to your spouse for a period of time. But as someone once said, anything worth achieving requires sacrifice.

If you're interested in continuing your education, but nervous about the concept of going back to school, there's good news: it is now possible to attend online adult education courses, bypassing the traditional classroom altogether. Online learning also is easier to work into your schedule for several reasons.

You see, unlike traditional classroom education, online learning is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week. There are normally no fixed times when you must "attend" classes; instead, you are presented with a series of tasks, which you can then complete on your own time frame.

Even those of us with hectic job and family schedules can find a few minutes here and there to study online. And the more you get into it, the more you will find creative ways to make the most of the time you do have available during the week. Online education conforms to your specific situation -- not the other way around, and is without a doubt the best way to go back to school as an adult.

But besides being able to work your studies around your schedule, online education saves you time and money in other ways. For example, you never have to rush home after work, just to grab a quick bite to eat and then rush back out the door to drive across town for a class. This saves you gas money, a great deal of stress, and makes the most of the free time you have, so that you can continue to have a life while you study.

And Internet educational resources have developed to the point where you can study for a wide range of adult education degrees online. Many people also find this way of studying easier, because classes are normally presented in video format, which means that you can watch them over and over again as many times as you like until the information "sinks in."

If you have been considering adult education, but were nervous at the prospect of going back to schoolArticle Submission, online adult education could be a perfect solution for you to advance in your career and life.

Don't try it at home

2008-04-05T10:44:00.000-07:00

Paint your lover white

What is Love and Lust ??

2008-03-15T16:32:00.000-07:00

Lust is always mistaken as love. Lust is passion. Lust is desire. Lust is therefore not love. It can be difficult for the inexperienced to distinguish between the two emotions. Especially, in the beginning of a relationship when sexual feelings are stronger.

Love

Love is the emotional attachment in a relationship. Love is the sincere feeling of affection and devotion that you have for your partner. It is a deep, profound, and pure emotion that does not sway easily. Love is an emotion that can take years to build up and can only be felt for someone you hold dear.

Lust

And then there is lust. Lust can be felt towards anybody with a sufficient amount of sexual appeal. Lust is so sensual in it's raw nature of being and can be formed instantly. It is a strong, excessive craving for sexual intimacy that can be difficult to control.

It is probably lust if sex is the main basis of your relationship. Can't keep your hands off each other? Is sex the only thing that you look forward to with this person? It is probably lust. A relationship founded on lust will only last as long as the two people involved are sexually attracted to one another; this can wear off fast.

Love Blog Wallpaper

2008-02-24T09:40:00.000-08:00

Make it as your wallpaper, or send it to your love one.

Eveready Valentine

2008-02-03T16:38:00.000-08:00

Funny Ad by Eveready ...

True Love or Fake Love

2008-01-05T07:25:00.000-08:00

Finding out if what you have is true love can be tricky. Feelings must be analyzed before they can be identified for what they truly are. The best way to find out how you really feel about someone is to sit down and dissect the relationship.

Signs Of Not Real Love

Possible signs that it isn't true love is you...

* think of your partner as absolutely perfect
* are concerned with your needs first
* need to spend all your free time with your partner
* quickly became infatuated with your partner
* tend to be jealous easily
* can't come to a compromise after fighting

# Signs Of A True Love

Possible signs that what you have may be true love is you...

* accept your partner and their flaws
* are concerned with your partner's needs first
* are comfortable being apart from one another
* slowly fell for your partner
* trust your partner completely
* are able to resolve a fight and grow stronger through it

20 Tips - How To Be Romantic

2007-12-09T11:33:00.000-08:00

1. Rebuild your love life - Work on yourself first. The relationship will follow. Two broken people cannot fix each other. Do something loving for yourself today, and then come back and do something loving for your partner.

2. Be honest with yourself - Only you can do the work that you alone need. Learning to love yourself first teaches you how to love others. Learn to love you. Only then will you have the kind of love your partner needs. Only then.

3. Begin all over again - Begin with a fresh start. Remember when you first met and everything was great? Each of you seemed to know what to do. The relationship was everything you wanted, right? Become re-acquainted. Get to know each other all over again. Begin by wooing each other like you did back then. Think a minute on those special moments. Think about those moments again.
4. Resolve now to recreate those good times. You can begin your fresh start in your love life any moment you choose. Forgive yourself for your mistakes. It's time to move forward and without regrets.

5. Establish a love life enhancement goal - What is your relationship goal? What is most important to you and to your partner? Spend quality time together talking about what is important to both of you. Set some love life goals. Write them all down on paper. Setting goals will allow you both to control the direction of change you wish for. To follow a new path without knowing where it leads is like walking into a maze.

6. Develop a love life sense of humor - Laugh about anything or nothing at all for 1 minute of each day. Show your loved one your lighter side. Smile and then smile again. It's very catching. Cultivate the positive by only looking at the bright side of things for a change.

7. Claim your bliss - Be happy now! It's your choice. Live and love to your absolute fullest and watch as the sparks start to fly.

8. Cultivate togetherness - Plan to spend time together. The key now is to "plan." Stand by what you plan. Keep your commitments to be only with your partner. Work on this together and you will accomplish much more.

9. Cultivate calm - Don’t let disagreements spoil your love life. Freely offer words such as, "I'm sorry," when needed and then put it behind you. Don't waste valuable time nursing a quarrel. Someone has to be first to back down -- might as well be you. Your love life will not thrive in an atmosphere of discord.

10. Don't allow negative behavior to rule your love life - When the relationship is strained, it can sink very quickly. Sometimes you don't do what your partner wants you to do, so he/she becomes upset and even distant. Agree to allow each other to make your own choices. Remember, women will respond quickest to a man's action or lack of action. Men will respond quickest to a woman's attitude.

11. Take good care of yourself. When you feel tension present in your love life it is easy to reach for inappropriate food, alcohol or drugs. This is a big mistake. Resolve to pamper yourself. A healthy mind and body will translate into a healthy love life.

12. Sleep until rested. You can’t make up for lost sleep. When you are well rested you are loving yourself and then you have more to offer your loved one.

13. Give genuine gifts! - Take the time to pay sincere gifts of love. Offer genuine compliments often. Offer generous praise for your partner. The road to prosperity in your love life will be paved with a commitment to generosity towards your partner.

14. Feel close to your partner. We feel closest to those who cause us to feel good about ourselves. Lavish expressions of love on your partner. Bring them straight from the heart.

15. Show appreciation. Nurture your love life with warmth and goodwill. This inspires your partner to want to please you. Appreciation is among the top ten needs for most people.

16. Exercise better choices - This is a great gift. It requires that you do not repeat the bad choices you have made in your love life that have brought you to this point in time. You will get what you focus on. Look for and see the goodness in your partner. This will spur you on to even better choices.

17. Show affection! - There is great healing in your power of touch. Hold hands. Kiss in your car. Give your partner a massage. Spend time holding and caressing. Give your partner an extended hug every day; one that lasts several minutes. Purpose to touch each other every day.

18. Celebrate your love life! - Plan for special days in romantic ways. Make a note of very special days. The ones that belong just to the two of you; your first date, when you first made love, when you moved into your home, the day you got married, the day of the proposal. Plan something really special.

19. Fun, fun, fun! - Kick your heels up and play like a kid again. Tell your partner you want to enjoy what he or she enjoys and then spend the entire day together. Make a commitment to do this regularly.

20. Dress up and go out on the town. - Go on a date and dress to the nines! Make it a special night; even rent a tuxedo or buy a new dress. Make advance reservations for a classy restaurant. Delight in all the planning.

Love Hugs

2007-11-03T08:17:00.000-07:00

Very nice video clip. It's fully of meaning in love.

What To Do If Your Date Becomes Cold

2007-10-09T19:20:00.000-07:00

Have you ever had this experience? You have dated some body few times. Both of you had great time together. You are making plans for the future. Everything seems to go smoothly. And suddenly your dating partner goes cold. The phones are not answered. The mails are not responded. No meetings are discussed, as if past never existed. Why this happened?

This happens with many of us. Out of two partners, one takes a unilateral decision to break away and does not inform the other. There may be many reasons for going cold, including finding some body else. But is it worthwhile chasing the cold date any more? No. But most of the break away partners do not say so clearly and the change in relationship is not spelled out. That causes problem for a certain time. This is surely unethical. One should never behave like this. But you can do nothing about it.

You have no option but to wait for some time and then ask straight question. Are we separate now? Are you no longer interested in meeting me? After getting a clear yes, begin again. Do not ponder and worry over why the earlier person behaved so strangely. Some people are like that. Imagine, if you had got married to somebody so unethical and unreliable?

This kind of behavior certainly shocks. But there is no use. Try to recover as soon as you can. This time, be more careful selecting your new dating partner and hope for the best. Despite many failures, success always comes. That is your right. Please claim it.

Why Two People Love Each Other?

2007-09-01T06:26:00.000-07:00

Why do two people love each other? Why do we need someone to love? Why cannot we love ourselves and exist alone? And what is that chemistry that a couple loves each other? Why both should love each other, and no body else? Love is truly a mystery.

The first reason is of course the passion one feels for the other. Call it hormones, mind, heart, emotions or whatever, one falls in love with another person and cannot live without him/her. Physical beauty is not the sole criteria in romantic passionate love. A very beautiful girl can passionately fall in love with an ordinary looking man to the surprise of all. There is something more that is yet to be explored. Ask a lover about why he/she loves her beloved and you will never get a logical answer. Love does not measure qualities, nor sets any standards. Love happens.

Sometimes the love arises out of appreciation of qualities of the other. This love is different than romantic love, but can be equally magnetic. You may get attracted to some persons singing so much that you want to be with him/her at all times. It can be any quality, but it is the appreciation of quality that brings forth this love. In this case the love is passionate love with that quality.

In some cases two persons find so many things alike between each other that they believe they are soul mates. Made for each other, these lovers are bound by the common qualities. What ever may be the reason for falling in love, please fall in love because it is incomparable.

In The Kitchen

2007-08-18T20:02:00.000-07:00

Oppss..watch carefully where u're romance...

Romance Pictures For Your Love

2007-08-04T00:28:00.000-07:00

Romantic Ideas and Long Term Relationship Advice

2007-07-28T15:03:00.000-07:00

"Should the sun refuse to shine, should romance run out of rhyme; you alone will hold my heart -- now until the very end of time.”
- Verses of Love

The biggest myth in romance is that you must pull off something big and extravagant so that your efforts will matter. The truth is that what will impress your loved one the most will often be the little things.

Little things are rather simple things that you do for your loved one. Despite the fact that they are "little" they can mean so much. Your loved one will be touched that you took the time to show him or her that you care so much.

You will be considered thoughtful. All of this plays very well when wishing to be romantic. Consider your loved one’s heart to be a basket. The basket wants to be filled. When you shower your loved one’s basket with many, little gifts, the basket will be filled and your loved one will be content and feel loved. It is as simple as that!

Considering the importance of every day little things, think about some new romantic ideas.

here are a few to get you started: -

* Pay your loved one a compliment, such as how awesome they look.
* Give your loved one a strong hug just because.
* Pick a bouquet of wild flowers and present them with a kiss.
* Massage their back and/or feet at the end of a work week.
* Leave an "I love you" note on their pillow.
* Call spontaneously at their work to say “I am thinking about you.”
* Place your arm around your loved one in public.

Remember, when you take the time to be thoughtful and attentive today, this can have a real positive effect on your long term relationship. We hope you find this advice and romantic ideas useful as always..

Discover how to flirt attract using body language and other tips

2007-07-20T23:55:00.000-07:00

It is rather difficult to be romantic without first flirting. What exactly is flirting and how can you adapt some flirting into your own romantic moods and play? To begin, you don’t want to be too aggressive. Start with very friendly gestures and once you have gotten those moves down, and then go for the romantic flirting!

1. Flirting is a frame of mind:

Be self-confident and do not be afraid to take risks.
Be enthusiastic about romance and be positive!

2. Start a sexy conversation:

Start with a simple, opening line by saying hello.
Talk about anything at all, whatever will get the romance going.

3. Enjoy yourself and have fun:

Be playful, light-hearted and above all, be spontaneous.
Show that you can be vulnerable.

4. Make good use of all props:

Always use a prop.
Props will get the conversation started naturally. They encourage conversation and others will want to start talking to you.
Great props are: pets, children, great jewelry, a wonderful scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite sports team’s emblem, an interesting book or magazine.

5. Play host:

Take the lead by taking on the role of host.
Do not be the passive person in waiting, but rather the lead.

6. Introduce yourself first:

Move closer to the person you want to meet and introduce yourself confidently!

7. Listen-up:

Everyone loves to be heard and when you are a good listener your partner will be drawn to you.

8. Make bold eye contact:

Look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then look away. You don’t want to stare!

9. Pay a genuine compliment:

Your partner will be pleased and will warm up to you more.

10. Show a beautiful smile:

You will look so much more approachable. Everyone is attracted to a genuine and heartfelt, smile.

So there you go! These are all ground-breakers when wanting to approach someone with romance. We must always be mindful of the fundamentals.

When we just dive right in, unexpected, we can turn our loved one off. Go slow, a step at a time and feeling confident, approach with your best romance moves.

Even Lizard Have Love Story

2007-07-08T10:30:00.000-07:00

Sad but funny...even lizard have love story...

Make a point to keep in touch

2007-07-07T06:00:00.000-07:00

One of the nice ways to keep in touch with friends and family is to send a note of love every now and then. The internet has opened up more options in staying in touch so there is really no excuse not to. If you are too busy to hop into a shop to buy a card, send an ecard, not just an ordinary one but an animated one will add alot of fun. Whether it’s a birthday, an anniversary, thank you or a Valentine ecard, this is one simple and effective way to show your love and express your thoughts.

Have you forgotten to keep in touch with someone you care about today?

Jangan Terlalu Memilih Cinta

2007-04-09T07:51:00.000-07:00

Suatu pagi yang dingin, terjadilah satu perbualan antara seorang guru falsafah dan pelajarnya...

Pelajar: Guru, apakah erti cinta..? Bagaimanakah saya boleh mendapatkannya...?

Guru: Ada sebuah ladang gandum yang luas didepan sana. Berjalanlah kamu dan jangan sesekali kamu berundur. Kemudian ambillah satu ranting. sekiranya kamu mendapati ranting tersebut sangat menakjubkan, ertinya kamu telah menemui cinta.

Pelajar tersebut pun berjalan dan tidak berapa lama dia kembali dengan tangan yang kosong.

Guru bertanya: Mengapa kamu tidak membawa sebatang ranting pun...?

Pelajar menjawab: Saya hanya terpaksa memilih satu ranting saja, dan sewaktu berjalan saya tidak boleh mengundur kebelakang semula. sebenarnya saya telah berjumpa dengan satu ranting yang paling menakjubkan tapi saya tak tahu apakah yang akan menakjubkan di hadapan sana nanti, maka saya biarkan ranting itu lalu saya dapati tidak ada lagi ranting yang paling menakjubkan selain daripada yang saya lihat tadi. Jadi saya tidak mengambil sebatang pun akhirnya.

Gurunya menjawab: Ya, itulah cinta...

Di hari lainnya pula pelajar tersebut bertanya kepada gurunya, apa itu perkahwinan...?

Guru: Ada hutan yang subur didepan sana. berjalanlah kamu. tapi janganlah kamu sesekali mengundur kebelakang. tebanglah sepohon pokok saja. dan tebanglah jika kamu merasakan bahawa pohon tersebut adalah yang paling cantik,segar dan tinggi, kerana kamu telah menemukan apa itu perkahwinan.

Pelajar tersebut pun berjalan, dan tidak berapa lama, dia datang semula dengan membawa sepohon kayu, walaupun pohon tersebut tidaklah berapa segar, cantik dan tinggi pada pandangan guru tersebut.

Maka gurunya pun bertanya: Mengapa kamu memotong pohon seperti ini....?

Pelajar itu menjawab: Sebab, berdasarkan pengalaman ku sebelum ini, aku hanya berjalan separuh daripada hutan tersebut dan aku takut akan kembali dengan tangan kosong. jadi saya mengambil kesempatan menebang pohon ini lalu dibawa kesini. pada pandangan saya ianya adalah pohon yang terbaik buat saya. saya tidak mahu kehilangannya atau menyesal kerana tidak memilihnya...

Maka guru itu menjawab: Itulah perkahwinan.......

TAMAT

Kesimpulannya, usahlah terlalu memilih cinta, ditakuti anda akan terlepasnya, dan janganlah terlalu memilih jodoh, terimalah pasangan anda dengan seadanya. Tidak ada manusia yang sempurna di dunia ini. Setiap insan pasti ada kelebihan dan kekurangannya.

Romantic Pictures

2007-04-09T07:39:00.000-07:00

Love Letters-An Animated Proposal

2007-04-02T18:27:00.000-07:00

I found this interesting 3d animated proposal..Try watch it and u will love it and have fun!!..

Late night talk

2007-03-19T08:07:00.000-07:00

Last Valentine's, there was a website that would generate a poem to give to your love. All you had to do was enter a name and press Go. I tried Josephine, and got

I felt the urge to put my feelings in writing
Because when I met you I was struck by lightning
Love is our connection
To you I dedicate all my affection

Josephine, you are unbelievably beautiful
For you I would risk dying in duel
I am not sure you will like my poem
At least this way my love for you becomes known

Josephine, you mean so much to me
Being with you, one plus one equals three
Ethernal bliss is where I'm bound
Together, everything will come round

I hope we make it, I hope it will be fast
I hope the moment forever lasts
This poem has come to an end
There are many more I would like to send

Ouch. I don't think Shakespeare has much to worry about. But yeah, the feeling of late night talk with someone, or the background murmur at a lively art cafe. You can tune in to all kinds of weird and wonderful things. Like the gamut of fractals from pristine to complete wreck. One of my favourite Ringo Starr quotes is, "I like my tracks with a bit of dirt on them". Another is, "you don't have to be first, just make sure you're not last!" Back off boogaloo.

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Some Lovely Pictures 2

2007-03-19T06:44:00.000-07:00

April Dates

2007-03-11T01:46:00.000-08:00

Ok... who's lonely now??..heheheh. watch this video why sometime woman/girl feel lonely..Have fun...

The Language of love

2007-03-07T14:24:00.000-08:00

'Right," said Toryboy, putting down his Daily Telegraph and the tiny kitten he had been poking with cocktail sticks to make it dance yet more furiously on the hotplate to which its tail was skewered. "This weekend we're having our belated Valentine's Day celebration."

I was confused. He knows he's got to give me fair warning if he wants to have sex, because I have to start taking the medication at least three days beforehand. Also, I thought we had celebrated Valentine's Day on, well, Valentine's Day.

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I put this to him, but he, with the almost pathological modesty that was one of the first things that attracted me to him, professed not to recall any romantic observances on the day. "What can you mean?" I said. "I vividly remember being gently coaxed out of slumber by the romantic sound of you smashing the lavatory seat down as if it had done you a grievous personal wrong. Then I remember coming downstairs to find that you had spattered drops of tea over seven cupboard doors in the kitchen, which I assume spelled out 'Lucy, you are my heart, my soul, my everything' in English Breakfast Morse code, because the alternative would be that you were a 33-year-old man incapable of transporting a teabag cleanly across the three feet separating the kettle from the bin.

"Then I stepped, in bare feet, on to the shards of broken mugs, glasses, crystal heirlooms, Lalique collectibles and assorted other detritus that marked your passage to bed the night before. And, as I picked the splinters from my injured soles, I reflected delightedly on the effort you had gone to in order to arrange this obliquely tender and poetically imaginative tribute to our coupledom on this special day. The mélange of shattered glass glinting in the early morning sun - symbolic of both the fragility of love and of the jewels you hope one day to shower upon me - and bleeding flesh, so sweetly emblematic of our tortured relationship, both touched and impressed me. Because otherwise it would have been very much the case that I was just sitting on cold lino with lacerated feet because you are a malcoordinated troglodyte who can remember every sarcastic remark ever deployed by Bismarck against the Reichstag but not where we keep the dustpan and brush. So, to sum up," I finished, "I could surely ask for no more loving homage from you. What can these belated celebrations of which you speak comprise?"

It turns out that they comprise two nights in a Norfolk B&B so I can freeze to death while he inspects churches and gets overexcited at the sight of quatrefoil piers and hollow-chamfered arches.

Still, I am impressed with the boarding house accommodation he has found for us. It is run by an Irishwoman by the name of Mrs O'Gre, who took one look at my naked left hand and announced that she would be putting us in the attic room so we "could be closer to God".

It has two single beds that are bolted to the floor and both mattresses are lined with rubber sheeting, which I am tempted to tell her will only encourage indulgence in deviant sexual practices among a certain subsection of the populace, rather than turn their attentions to more spiritual pursuits. But I don't. I lie back contemplatively in the cold pool of perspiration that has gathered in the mattress and reason that at least it will make returning to my tea-stained, glass-strewn midden of a house a welcome relief.

Maybe this was Toryboy's plan all along. What a thoughtful man he is.

Bullet For My Valletine

2007-02-18T06:25:00.000-08:00

It's cool song, is it true love or desire for sex..think about it...
Have fun...

Romantic Movies Help Spread Valentine Love

2007-02-11T17:02:00.000-08:00

With Valentine’s Day nearly here, many couples will no doubt find themselves picking up a movie for a cozy evening in. So many choices, so many opportunities to make the wrong selection and spoil the most romantic evening of the year.

To set the mood and enhance the likelihood of having a night to remember, AOL Video turned to Nancy Slotnick, author of “Turn Your Cablight On (Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less),” for tips on selecting a movie and setting the scene for a romantic evening at home this Valentine’s Day.

Don’t Get Too Tragic. Movies with star-crossed lovers, like “Romeo & Juliet,” may be romantic, but may not set the ideal mood on Valentine’s Day.

Chick Flicks are In. Since Valentine’s Day is notoriously a woman’s holiday, men may want to go along with the girliest film they can tolerate, all in the name of love of course. For those who just can’t bear to rent a true “chick flick,” then a romantic-comedy is the next best bet.

Foreign Films are Trés Sexy. Europeans know romance. Take a lesson from “Amélie,” a movie billed as “a love letter to romantics.” Not to mention the accents, which are enough to set the evening’s romantic tone on their own.

Share the Couch. Regardless of what you watch, don’t sit across the room from your date. And ditch the popcorn. Wine, cheese and chocolate will best complement any romantic movie.

Short Movies are Best. You don’t want you or your sweetie to fall asleep on the sofa before the end of the movie. So choose a short film to help ensure time for romance once the movie is over.

To help get into a romantic state of mind, AOL Video compiled the “Top Five Most Romantic Movie Moments” into a free highlights reel available for viewing at video.aol.com/valentine.

These moments include:

5) “Pretty Woman” - Edward “rescues” Vivian in the final scene.

4) “Sleepless in Seattle” - Sam describes his wife Maggie on the radio call-in show.

3) “Ghost” -: Sam crosses over and can feel Molly’s touch.

2) “Titanic” - When Rose and Jack stand at the bow of the ship.

1) “Jerry Maguire” - Jerry tells Dorothy, “You . . . complete me.”

Some Lovely Pictures

2007-02-10T22:53:00.000-08:00

Scrubs Love Songs

2007-02-03T22:30:00.000-08:00

f you are a fan of Scrubs, you will love this! JD and Turk sing about their love for each other and their relationship..an extremely funny 2 1/2 minutes!

ps : It's not about gay but friendship ...

Valentine Flower Tips For Guys On The Go

2007-02-03T22:11:00.000-08:00

It's tough to be romantic when you're on the go, working 12 hours a day, and juggling mulitple priorities. No wonder that on a romance scale of 1 to 10, only 19% of women rate their boyfriend, husband, or significant other a 7 or higher. But, wait guys; there's help. Even if you're on the go, you can boost your romance quotient this Valentines. Here's how.

Don't fret about choosing the right gift.

Flowers are still the most desired gift from an admirer and to express love. They're personal, romantic, and according to researchers at Rutgers University, actually raise peoples spirits. In one study with 147 women of varying ages, those who received flowers smiled significantly more than those who received other gifts. Fresh, colorful flowers evoke happy feelings. Other studies indicate that flowers actually improve emotional health and make people feel more connected. According to professor Jeannette Haviland-Jones, PhD, "The phrase 'stop and smell the roses' may have a touch of genius in it."

Order early.

Sending Valentines flowers is fast and easy! There are wonderful local florists in virtually every town, as well as dozens of leading online florists that deliver nationwide. And, ordering only takes a few minutes. So, don't let your busy schedule get in the way. Just pick up the phone or shop online. But, remember, Valentines is the "Superbowl" of flower holidays, with five to ten times the normal volume of deliveries. So, for the best selection, service, and pricing, it's best to order early. You'll be glad you did.

Sending flowers to where she works?

That's a great idea. It can brighten her whole week, she'll be reminded of you every time she looks at them, and co-workers comments are a big plus, too. But, here's a helpful tip from Romeos in the know. With million of deliveries on Valentine's Day, flowers can arrive almost anytime. So, play it safe. Ask for delivery the day before Valentine's. That way your gift will be even more of a pleasant surprise and is sure to be enjoyed throughout all of Valentine's Day. In other words, you look like you were planning ahead and avoid any risk of your gift looking like a last-minute afterthought.

There's more to Valentines than just red roses.

While beautiful long-stem red roses are still the most popular Valentine's flower gift, there are lots of other options for every taste and budget. Many women prefer pretty pastel roses in pink, peach, yellow, or assorted spring colors. They can make you stand out from the crowd. And, almost half of all Valentine's bouquets aren't roses at all; they're lush mixed bouquets and spring flowers such as tulips. Choosing something unique can show you remember your sweetheart's favorite color or flower. Your favorite florist will have a great selection and can quickly help you with the best choice.

Remember flowers after Valentine's too.

What's the best way for a man to make a lasting impression on a woman? Research shows that the answer to making a memorable impact is right under his nose -- with flowers. Ninety-two percent of women can remember the last time they received flowers, and 89% agree that receiving flowers makes them feel special. “If the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, then the pathway to a woman’s heart is through her other senses,” says Rebecca Cole, of Discovery Channel’s Surprise By Design. “Flowers are a sensual gift that can express any emotion so simply - with just a little knowledge and a phone call to your florist.” And, flowers given for no special reason may be the most special of all. So, light a fire with flowers this Valentine's. And, keep it burning with a surprise gift of flowers anytime throughout the year.

By John E. Williams courtesy of 1-800-FLORALS. Award-winning same-day and next-day flowers delivery throughout the USA and Canada plus international flowers by wire. Since 1923.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=J._E._Williams

If you want to be loved

2007-01-29T21:40:00.001-08:00

I am sorry if I seem obsessed with this topic lately. Hahaha. I have been involved in a very long - like 6-month long - conversation about love and insanity and hope and weighing needs against ideals and everything like that. It is neverending. The person I am having this conversation with is crazy and beautiful and amazing and wise and kind...and sometimes the opposite of all of that. There are times when I feel like I am in love with him, and there are times when I feel like that would be the absolute dumbest idea in the world. But either way, this whole epic discussion is making me think. Hard. About what I value, what I need, what I want...and what I am willing to compromise. And, really, either way it is moot. Because we will most likely never be together...for various reasons - some his and some mine.

It sounds both more and less tragic than it actually is. You know? On the one hand, how wonderful that I have this person with whom I can share so much without having to worry about all of that relationship crap with. On the other hand...there are times when the idea of us together is painfully desirable, and the reasons why we can't be are almost Shakespearian in drama and in convolution. Of course, there are also simple and logistical reasons for the way things are, but that's no fun to focus on! Hahaha.

But anyway, I keep having these really revelatory conversations with this person that seem to apply only to him or me or him and me, but in actuality are fairly universal. I should probably look back on them in times of distance to see what I can dig up. But recently, there has been a lot having to do with safety and honesty and whether you can actually preserve stability by being dishonest. I guess I had never considered before that honesty can cause instability, and that people need to be prepared to deal with that consequence if they choose to be honest. And that some people choose to be dishonest rather than risk causing instability.

I am also learning a lot about trusting my instincts to love people. And to allow second and third and fourth chances. And allowing someone to give me second and third and fourth chances. It is a friendship, but it is way deeper than that. It is painful, but it gives so much wisdom and fulfillment in return. I feel like, yeah, like there is a reason this person is in my life in the way that he is. I am thankful for his presence even though sometimes I want to kick him in the shins and stick my tongue out at him. He is a challenge, and he is delightful. He is a stubborn, obnoxious brat, and he is adorable. He is my friend, and I love him without measure.

What more can I say?

Love...

2007-01-29T21:11:00.001-08:00

What more can I say?

What is love???

2007-01-29T20:46:00.000-08:00

A journey into the unknown

Everyone has an opinion on love, but few are brave enough to define it. This universal and apparently inconsistent emotion seems almost incapable of definition.

Biomatch definition of love is:

The affinity experienced between two people who are naturally able and willing to tune into one another's emotional, intellectual, and physical states - and respond to them in a nurturing and a stimulating way.

It's a mouthful that demands explanation. What is it that makes us 'willing' and 'naturally able' to love?

Let's start at the beginning - at the moment when someone new turns us on. Being 'turned on' is the immediate reason why we become willing to love someone. It's our response to their observable qualities.

But now we're on a journey into the unknown. The person that we think we see in front of us could well be a million miles from the person we are about to get involved with. We may walk in willing, but there's no guarantee that we'll end up loving.

The problem is that compatibility, the key ingredient for a long term successful relationship, lies hidden from view. If we could choose compatible partners by their outer characteristics, few relationships would fail.

Time will tell

We think we can spot compatibility, but the factors that govern compatibility are far too complex to be revealed by a simple intellectual assessment. In fact our intellectual abilities may well be a hindrance to partner-selection. In a love relationship, we interact in ways that our intellect can't decipher.

Only time reveals the truth. It's then that we face the crunch: is this the person we want to spend the rest of our life with; or is this the person we never want to see again? Is this someone whom we are naturally able to love; or is this someone from another planet?

What time reveals is biorhythmic compatibility, the hidden compatibility that's built into our physiology. You can't see it, sense it, smell it, or feel it; but it's there alright; performing a far more profound type of partner-selection through our biorhythms.

Biorhythmic compatibility is the underlying compatibility that makes both parties 'naturally able' to love. It surfaces long after we find ourselves willing to love.

Science and love

Historically, there has only been one way to find out if two people are 'naturally able' to love each other. They've had to put their relationship through the potentially heart-breaking test of time. But now they can use science. They can use Biomatching (TM) to identify compatible partners from the outset.

The good news is that each and every one of us has an equal number of potential biorhythmic love partners. Instead of pursuing potential partners at random (those who merely seem like the person you'd love to love), perhaps it's time to choose them on the basis of genuine compatibility. With Biomatch.com, you could find yourself 'willing' and 'naturally able' to love from the outset.